To me, he is dead.

A new life has come into the world. In the morning light, parents share their first moment together with their newborn child.

He mimed to Shirley Bassey

I have two boys. The finest boys in the world. I was married to the father of these boys for four years. Before that, we were friends for four years. Then we were together and engaged for ten years.

In the beginning of our relationship, he courted me with roses and chocolates, like a gentleman. He made breakfast for me. He would mime, dramatically in his bathrobe, to Shirley Bassey’s ”I Who Have Nothing,” making me laugh.

Her name was Sarah. Then Melissa. Then Marissa.

I had worked a full night shift. He sat down on the edge of the bed and broke up with me. Just like that. Because of a woman he found on Facebook. At the time, her name was Sarah Light. Then it turned out her name was Melissa. Only to finally become Marissa.

They haven’t even met in real life. She lives in Malta.

The first thing she did, after Jörgen broke up with me, was to send me a friend request on Facebook. As I went to delete it, my eyes swept over her page. She had already updated her status to being in a relationship with my husband. With someone she had never met.

Bitterly, I suggested to Jörgen that they might as well get married on Skype. Meeting in real life seems unnecessary. I’m sure there’s some priest willing to do it.

500,000 SEK to a woman he has never met

A relative who works at the Enforcement Authority (Kronofogden) was able to show that he has accumulated debts of over 500,000 SEK (approx. €43,000). Every single penny went to her. He works two jobs and sends his entire salary there. He has visited her a few times, for one week a year. She lied about her age, she was older than she claimed.

His large extended family is broken. The contact with his own boys is severed. He is isolated. She is a manipulative gold digger in Malta.

Everyone -deacon, priest, licensed psychotherapist, counselor, family – has talked to each other and to the police. Everyone stands powerless.

This Friday, my son graduates from high school. Without his father.

He had gotten in touch with his father via email, asking if he would attend the graduation. The response he got was a cold: ”Cool.” Today, both of my boys received an email. Then he blocked them.

My oldest son gave me the email address. I wrote to him. He replied in the subject line: Don’t ever contact me again. FUCK OFF!

An answer that is anything but mature. An answer that is not worth dwelling on any longer.

The boys are the best part of everything

At my core, I am a happy person. People enjoy my company. I am not spoiled. I deserved a better man than Jörgen.

A man can be as nice and pleasant as can be. For a long time. But you never know when he will lose his sanity. And he will. Sooner or later.

The boys are the best part of everything. And no one can take that away from me. Not even a gold-digging fortune hunter in Malta.

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